In the beginning stages of a relationship, if a guy likes you, won’t he want to spend every possible moment with you?
I would tend to think so, but maybe I’m terribly, terribly wrong.
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I think that it depends on what he wants going into the relationship. Some guys just like to date and enjoy a girl’s company and some want long-term. It really just depends. Just be aware that what he wants can change after he gets to know you. I would advise against asking him if it is too early in the relationship, but if you MUST know then perhaps you can find a casual way of bringing it up with no pressure. Good luck! Keep me posted!
on my next attempt I will try to avoid that. Because it led to the breakup from last year. I was available, I took the time I was there for her… it only led to that she thought of me as a sure thing, as secure as something you don’t have to work or fight for it.
Next time I fall in love I will battle with myself to keep the life I live now, yet to share it with someone.
But I see no harm in putting in some effort to show a girl you like her. In fact, I demand it. If I feel like I’m not getting the attention I want or deserve, I’m not going to stay, I’m going to find a guy who will give me that. I guess everyone is different. Maybe the girl you were with felt smothered and like she needed to breathe. I definitely believe in balance and that it needs to be found, but I want my dudes to put in work for me.
You’re definitely not wrong on this one. If a man is interested in you, he’ll pursue you and make you a prority.
- K.
I agree completely, and that’s what I’m waiting for!